tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post113813571336213301..comments2023-11-05T07:13:31.277-05:00Comments on WHAT ARE MEN THINKING?: A problem with "Guys Night" (Repost)Chuck and Garlandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18277194909409065185noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-80230912118342613852009-04-11T15:56:00.000-04:002009-04-11T15:56:00.000-04:00At the risk of rehashing what others have said..tr...At the risk of rehashing what others have said..trying to tie him to your side 24/7 is only going to make him want to get away from you all the more. He married you - that shows he is commited to you fully. He takes off only a couple of times a month and your insecure self cannot cope with this?? Being overly clingy and insecure will ultimately drive a wedge between the two of you and drive HIM away. Find your own interests and let him have his.Elizabethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-14252657449441433702009-03-07T07:22:00.000-05:002009-03-07T07:22:00.000-05:00Girlfriend, perhaps you should establish your own ...Girlfriend, perhaps you should establish your own "women's night" with the girls? It's not healthy to be and do everything together...I mean won't you run out of things to talk about? Maybe a girls night where you watch movies and have drinks or do a marathon of your favorite show will help you to understand and give both of you time to breathe.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-4474173198793138122009-03-05T18:33:00.000-05:002009-03-05T18:33:00.000-05:00Let him go out and play. Sometimes no matter how m...Let him go out and play. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone - you need some down time - to unwind and just plain chill. <BR/><BR/>Use his guys night out as a chance to pursue a hobby of your own - hang out with your girls, reconnect with yourself. It's the guy equivalent of a spa day a chance to just "be". Guys - heck everyone needs that time to reconnect with themselves - it makes you a better person. <BR/><BR/>SMHAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-56860458124342749112009-03-05T17:27:00.000-05:002009-03-05T17:27:00.000-05:00Sister girl, sister girl...let the man go! And wh...Sister girl, sister girl...let the man go! And while he is hanging out with the boys...do something for yourself. Take a class, get your nails done, bubble bath, read a book...etc. In other words do "u" with the time u have. He will think it is soooo cool that u don't forsake his time to do "him". Every relationship needs down time. Don't sweat it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-39536097285674600712009-03-05T13:10:00.000-05:002009-03-05T13:10:00.000-05:00I've been married a while, and I have to wholehear...I've been married a while, and I have to wholeheartedly agree with the advice Chuck and Garland gave you. Shoot, sometimes I almost want to call that man's friends FOR HIM. COME GET YA BOY!!! Whoo. Just kidding. Not really.<BR/><BR/> Couples need outside interests and friends even when they are married.TJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01440182520469860355noreply@blogger.com