tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post5899292353703672151..comments2023-11-05T07:13:31.277-05:00Comments on WHAT ARE MEN THINKING?: He Has a Right to Remain Silent. Or Does He?Chuck and Garlandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18277194909409065185noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17852423.post-73469781058815829832010-03-20T17:48:50.781-04:002010-03-20T17:48:50.781-04:00You said I wasn’t seeing him as long term relation...You said I wasn’t seeing him as long term relationship material but thought he would be a lot of fun short term. Translation it lasts for as long as it lasts and that usually as long as it is fun - just enjoy it stay in the moment have fun, make no plans beyond fun, protect yourself, it is what it is and then it is done. When either one or both of you stops having fun it is done it has run it's course. No harm no foul. If that is the case then why are you asking what you did wrong? That implies more beyond the moment. Fact is you guys have had a good albiet short run and it is done. Move on - neither of you made any promises and were just taking it as it comes well the time has come to say we are done. Once you start worrying what did I do wrong you are investing and that is not what you said you want. Lie to anyone else you want tell them whatever you think they want or need to hear or what you need them to hear but be honest with yourself about what it is you want. This will help you avoid a world of hurt. G and c are on target. Give him the benefit of the doubt - it's fun it's done - next! If you are still feeling this guy then - protect yourself - and not just physically ask what you want to know and then listen to what he says and vet it against what he does. It does not sound like he lied. His actions tell the truth. It has only been two 'dates'. Men speak with their actions - ignore what he is saying pay attention to what he has or has not done. If he comes back around and these types usually do - because the ball is always in play until they find another game they want to play. Forewarned is forearmed. Knowledge is power. Two dates does not a relationship make - the game is still in play. He maybe just testing you to see what you do - so do nothing and wait. That will make him sweat. The advantage of that is - that under pressure people reveal something closer to the truth. Police/DOD tactics 101. So do nothing and see how he reacts. Know what you want. Tell yourself the truth and deal with what is. If you want to play - hit it, quit it and forget it - if your goal at that time is to just have fun. If you know you can't do that and walk away - then that is a game you do not play. Sounds to me like you are kidding yourself and do not know what you want - in that case let him go and move on. <br /><br />Clariceclaricenoreply@blogger.com